Male Chastity Frustration

Male Chastity Frustration

Male chastity frustration is overwhelming me. I’m tense. I am having trouble doing anything. All I can think about is how bad I want to cum.

And then all I can think about is how I can’t.

I wrote in the last article, I am currently locked by ChastiKey since my keyholders are unavailable. They could still override it, since they have copies of my keys. If I needed out, I could buy a release for a few dollars.

So why am I now at 12 days instead of the original estimate? Because I found the green card on day 7. The app allows you to open or put your fate in the hands of a random generator. I decided the app could decide if I would be released. It started the entire lock over again.

So let’s talk about the chastity belt I’m stuck in. I reviewed it on the blog after it arrived. I have worn it for a few clips sold in our studio, but more often am placed in my Mature Metal cage for those. The belt allows no visuals.

My personal preference is to see firsthand the frustration male chastity causes. I get a lot of emails about how hot it is when my cock drools constantly. Trust me, it is hot on this side of the camera too.

But after the testicle smashing incident, my balls tend to slip through the gap of every cage I wear. I’m told everything is fine by my doctor, but I can’t exactly explain the problem. I could see my insurance company denying that claim!

The chastity belt locks around my waist though. The balls aren’t trapped. They move under the cock tube, which is somewhat restrictive, but if they move around, no problem. This is now my preferred chastity device.

I did have some issues with the belt itself causing irritation on my hips. That surprised me because I wore the chain for years with few problems. Time in the belt has allowed my body to adapt and if irritation starts, lotion soothes the problem away.

I purchased the belt from DHGate. Not exactly the highest quality, but pretty darn amazing for the price. Here are some things I like about it.

male chastity frustrationI’m completely enclosed, yet can unlock and remove a bottom shield for cleaning. The shield allows me to clean out the tube, but I can barely reach my dick. So I still never see my “manhood.” (Pictured right – Goddess Dani removed the shield to tease the head of my dick with her finger.)

I also can’t cum in the belt. Last night I tried. Hard. I know punishment is coming for that, but I was desperate. I grabbed the tube and pulled on it as I bucked my hips. And nothing happened. The entire episode left me exhausted and frustrated. And I can’t see where that will end any time soon.

The belt’s tube is large enough to allow me to get hard, but I can’t move it since it attaches close to my body. Unlike a ball trap device, where you can move things around, the belt doesn’t yield. Plus I am now on a chastity weight loss regimen and the belt can be adjusted. It is involved, but it can be done. That makes me very happy!

On another note, I did text with Goddess Savannah. I updated her on my situation and she texted back the message in the header photo above.

We were to shoot at the beginning of April. That now looks like it will moved to May. She has always wanted to ruin my orgasm in the chastity cage. I’ve been trained not to cum in it. So Goddess Savannah has used vibrators on my locked dicklet and never had any success with making me spurt. This time it will be two months of no spilling at all, ruined or otherwise. 

Her excitement at the idea of ruining me in my chastity now looks like the next chance I will get to release. I think she may just be able to achieve her goal.


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ChastiKey Key Holding App

ChastiKey Key Holding App

Today I start a two part post, this first is to introduce you to the ChastiKey key holding app for your smart phone.

In the post Chastity Lockdown for Everyone, I talked about my COVID-19 lockdown. No play, total isolation.

I am locked in my full male chastity belt, which I have grown to love. (And hate.) I gave a male chastity belt review on the blog, and will update my experience in these articles. I have had some serious time locked away, so this should help others considering one.

Between shoots I am usually locked away in the chastity belt. Not always, but my free days are few. Since I enjoy the frustration of being in male chastity, that makes my life easier. Sometimes.

It isn’t chastity though until you want out and aren’t released. It pushes your boundaries. Chastity surpasses your comfort zone. This isn’t supposed to be easy on the male. It is a submission of the most intimate kind. Even if you don’t have an intimate relationship with your key holder.

Goddess Cassandra CainI shot with Goddess Cassandra Cain very early this month. We did almost two hours of boudoir shooting. Her body has amazing curves, her skin glows and she is so beautiful. After an hour and a half of shooting, to say I was horny would be an understatement.

We finished the session with a cock tease video. She ruined my orgasm, and I went straight into my chastity belt. I had a couple of boudoir photography shoots following that, but no more play.

Then COVID19 hit and canceled my video shoots.

I got permission to try an app keyholder called ChastiKey. The app is available for iPhone and is a timed card game. You have the option of selecting the parameters of the game, or others offer “locks” that they can control.

Your with keys locked in a combination lock box, the app confuses you so you forget the number. It works too. I have no idea what number was dialed in. My emergency keys are unavailable now.

(You can buy your release, which is an option you can set at the start.)


Shit – I forgot about the double up cards – just got this.

To get released you must select cards at timed intervals. Red cards will make you wait until the next interval to try again. (My current interval is every six hours, but you can go less or more.)

There are yellow cards which add one or two red cards. There are also yellow cards which will remove red cards. There is the dreaded freeze card which keeps you from selecting a card for 12 to 24 hours, extending your lock. There are lock reset cards which will restart the entire process, minus that reset card.

Then there are the green key cards. You can select an option that allows you to unlock if you find one, or you could have to find several. There is nothing worse than being one card away from release and selecting a reset card.

The app also has “bots” which will control your lock. The bots will add or subtract cards at random. You have no control over that, so it is like having a keyholder.

The app has a discussion group on Discord, and you can find real key holders there. Make sure to ask before you try one of their locks though. They are people and only have a limited amount of time to deal with horny males. (Or females.) If you piss them off, you may find yourself locked longer than you want. Or banned from their locks.

I created my own lock, setting the parameters and the app told me the likely scenario would be 6 days. It also gave me a short estimate of 18 hours and a long estimate of 9 days.

I am on Day 10. I’ll tell you more about that next time.

No Erections Zone

No Erections Zone

Training for no erections isn’t easy. Since I went through puberty I’ve had trouble controlling my little monster. Flash forward to now and I still have trouble.

Sometimes it feels like he is broken from all the time spent locked in a chastity cage. Other times he is raring to go at full mast if a Goddess will set him free.

I have been given Viagra to achieve an erection with no intention of being used.

One of my worst nightmares was The Most Freaking Painful Blowjob Ever Recorded. I was put in the Kali’s Teeth Bracelet after a Viagra and Goddess Anastasia gave me a blowjob. Usually the spikes press into my dick causing it to deflate. Not so when you take a Viagra ahead of time.

She later said she got so wet watching the pain on my face. And she was always my nice, sweet Goddess!

Back to the No Erections Zone:

Today we released Pesky Boners on Clips4Sale. (Don’t worry, it will release soon on both ManyVids and I Want Clips if they are your clipstores of choice.)

Goddess Dacey Harlot is as hot as they come. She is so damn sexy and confident. And she has decided that I am no longer allowed to have an erection.

No Erections by order of Dacey Harlot

In this clip I am again placed in the Kali’s Teeth Bracelet. Dacey intended to teach me to associate boners with pain. I don’t need to get erect. After all, the only thing my dick will be used for is to pee.

(And for the Goddesses to torture.)

I happen to be a slow learner though. Even though I start limp with the spikes barely touching my shaft, it gets much worse. Goddess Dacey places her perfect feet in my face and rubs them over my mask. Then they stray lower, offering me a quick footjob, or at least, as much as a small dick locked in the bracelet can have.

I’ve always been a fan of handjob clips. I sometimes think I like handjobs more than fucking. (If you can call a two pump finish fucking, which you can’t.)

Goddess knows how much I crave the feel of her hands on me. She started playing with my penis and it erected fast. Of course, the spikes caused pain. And that is what she wanted. Boners mean pain. I have to learn that.

My fear is it will take a lot of time. But I know that Goddess is serious about this. After recording this clip she made me stay in the bracelet for a few hours.

I have a love/hate relationship with that device. And I believe it will teach me to have no erections.

Chastity Lockdown For Everyone

Chastity Lockdown For Everyone

Been feeling locked down lately? People are on social media claiming they are going stir crazy. Well think about my penis, it has been on a chastity lockdown for awhile.
Okay, so you don’t want to think about my penis. But I can’t get it off of my mind. I’m horny as hell and it keeps getting worse.
I live alone and this social distancing has left me without any chance of physical tease. So not only am I on a chastity lockdown, I’m without any play at all.
And I love to play. Even when it hurts.
(I guess that means my pain tolerance is growing, which I know will thrill most of my Goddesses.)
So tell us Tiny, what have you been doing. Obviously you haven’t been posting much on the blog lately.
Thanks for asking. I have been busy editing videos. There is a backlog of clips that I need to finish and upload. I am still trying to deliver new clips every day on Clips4Sale, although that may end soon. I have a lot of clips there, so everyday may be too often.
I’m also working on Boudoir Photography.
This was another idea posed by some of my Goddesses. It offers me the chance to take sexy pictures of lovely ladies. Lingerie, implied nude (which is nude but obscure from the camera lens), artistic nudes and erotic images.
So there I am, locked in chastity while beautiful women display themselves for my camera.
I love the artistry of photography. I started taking courses with the goal to constantly improve. And I am getting good responses, which makes me proud of these efforts.
So while I am in this COVID-19 chastity lockdown, I have also been studying, practicing editing and working on the art.
There is still much to do, but taking steps now is the only way to get there. Just like a chastity record. You can’t go a year if you can’t go a day. (Or week, or ….. you get the idea.)
I’d like to take this opportunity to say thank you to all the fans who have been purchasing our clips on Clips4Sale, IWantClips and ManyVids.
Your purchases are always appreciated. They help fund the new content that I share here and on social media. The income benefits the many ladies that I am seen with. Your purchases are tributes to their beauty. (I wear a mask for a reason. I am not beautiful. I am lucky as hell.)
If you aren’t following us on Instagram, check it out. We can’t post any nudity there, but you’ll see some beautiful faces. My sexy keyholders and some of the new models I’ve shot with are featured there.
Plus I am still posting on TwitterBDSMLr, Sharesome and NewTumbl. Although it is getting harder to keep track of what posts where since none allows me to schedule as Tumblr did. But I abandoned that system when they started censoring every post I created. 
Maybe I should start a new Boudoir blog there.
Stay safe and sane during this isolation period.

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